Finding Inspiration in Unexpected Places—A Journey to Purpose and Craft

Sometimes, inspiration comes from places you’d never expect. For me, it wasn’t some grand epiphany or a life-changing event. It was a woman named Karen—a near-stranger—whose unwavering grace sparked a transformation within me, setting me on a path toward healing, spirituality, and an unexpected passion for candle-making. 

Today, as I celebrate my craft and our shared humanity for International Women’s Day, I want to share my story of finding inspiration and purpose in the least likely of places.

The Beginning of a Transformation 

Five years ago, my life was a reflection of chaos—a constant struggle with sobriety, self-worth, and a deep dissatisfaction with who I’d become. Back then, the thought that another person, especially another woman, could inspire me was inconceivable. I was stuck in a loop of self-doubt, sure that others perceived me as insignificant and unworthy. 

But life has a surprising way of gently nudging us toward a path we didn’t know we needed. Mine began the morning I looked in the mirror and finally faced the person I had become. I didn’t like what I saw. For the first time, I surrendered. I chose to hand my life over to something bigger than myself, and that decision cracked open the door to grace, dignity, and renewal. 

Karen walked through that door. 

Karen’s Quiet Grace 

Karen is not only a captain of a major airline—a role carrying profound responsibility—but also a woman who embodies kindness and compassion effortlessly. To her, mentoring other women isn’t just a choice—it’s a calling. 

She became my spiritual advisor, though I see her more as the guiding light I didn’t realize I needed. Through Karen, I witnessed what it meant to live a life steeped in integrity, service, and grace—not just for herself but for every person she encountered. 

Her way of life reminded me of dormant values I had cast aside long ago. Love. Kindness. Compassion. Piece by piece, I began to rebuild myself in the image of those virtues. 

A Spark of Inspiration 

Over the years, Karen's mentorship helped me unearth something extraordinary within myself—a desire to create. I realized there was a quieter, stiller side of my soul craving expression. That desire, combined with my growing spirituality, led to something unique and personal to me—making candles. 

Each candle I poured wasn’t just wax and wicks. It was a symbol of light in the darkness, a reminder of Karen’s unwavering belief in grace and dignity, and a celebration of life’s beautiful, simple moments. 

Creating candles became my way of giving back, of spreading the warmth and inspiration Karen had gifted me. Every flicker of light represents a memory, a moment, and a story longing to be shared. 

The Power of Women Inspiring Women 

This isn’t just my story. It’s a story about the incredible power of women inspiring women. It’s a reminder that our smallest actions—the way we live, the way we lead—can create ripples far beyond our own understanding. 

Karen reminded me that mentorship doesn’t require grand gestures. Sometimes, it’s in the quiet strength of simply showing up for someone, leading by example, and inspiring others to become the best versions of themselves. 

Her impact was magnified through something as simple as a shared bond between two women, rooted in a radical belief in each other’s potential. 

How This Journey Shaped My Craft 

At The Hundredth Acre, every candle I make tells a story. My creations aren’t just about scent—they’re about experiences, feelings, and tapping into the stillness of life. 

• ‘Walk in the Woods’ evokes the peace of a forest trail, with notes of pine, cedar, and moss—reminding you of leisurely walks and rustling leaves. 
• ‘Serenity’ combines nag champa, rose, and lily of the valley to foster total stillness—a reflection of life’s softer, calmer moments. 
• ‘Push Pop’ is a playful ode to carefree summer days, with citrusy orange mingled with creamy vanilla to call up childhood memories. 

Karen taught me that meaningful work is about connection. With every candle I pour, I hope to create a connection—not just between myself and my craft but also between you and your own memories, emotions, and possibilities. 

Find Inspiration in Small Moments 

If there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s this: inspiration is all around us. Sometimes it takes the form of a stranger who touches our lives deeply. Sometimes it’s within ourselves, waiting to be unlocked through reflection, creativity, or a single step in the right direction. 

Today, as we celebrate International Women’s Day, I encourage you to reflect on who inspires you. Recognize the women in your life who’ve helped you grow, and think about how you can pass that gift along to others. 

And if you need a symbol of stillness and connection, light a candle. Sit with yourself in its flickering glow, and remember—you, too, have the power to inspire.